Inagural Post

Hello everyone, my name is Jesse.

I am a father of two and husband to one.  A daughter who is three years old, and the apple of my eye.  A son who is one year old, and my pride and joy.  A wife who I love and admire who does the work in the trenches while I slave over a hot bar top.   I tend bar as my profession, I attend college three quarter time, my wife attends college full time and we have no family in town to help, so we do it all by ourselves with no use of day care or baby sitting.

I have wanted to blog for a long time, but due to the fact that I am busy and a procrastinator, that hasn't happened.  Until now.  I find myself wandering in thought, day in and day out, about being a father, a husband and how those things affect me.  Some of it is serious, and some funny.  In my experience, there are innumerable blogs and sites for Mothers.  Advice columns, question and answer sites, the list goes on and on.  But I have not seen many for Dad's or men that more or less speak to the thought process's of men and how they react to marriage, work life, home life, parenting and general day to day happenings. 

So here is mine.  I hope everyone enjoys my mind on paper (web) and finds some sort of benefit from it.  Be that enthusiasm, motivation, tears, laughter or answers.  Thanks for finding me, and enjoy the read.