So it's father's day again. A time when everyone takes time out to let Dad go golfing. But seriously, it's a great time for reflection and introspection.
I think back to all of the things that were great about my childhood. All of the things we had, the traditions, the camping trips, the bike riding and all of the random activities done in the spur of the moment. My dad was a great father. He was constantly involved in everything we did. He was always helping us have more fun. When we were trying to build a jump for our bikes, he took the tractor and built us an entire BMX course! He played with us, built a forts for us, built a tree house, well sort of, for us and was always accessible. Upon researching many of my friends experiences with their fathers, I now know what a blessing that was for my brothers and I. He was consistent in his punishments and loved us all of the time, both physically and spiritually. He was a cuddly hugging daddy and that made very loving affectionate men of my brothers and me.
I could go on and on but I'll finish with this. He now makes a great Toepappy for my babies and has not stopped being a great dad to me. The education never stops, it only gets deeper after you've become a parent. I constantly strive to be a good daddy to my babies. To be consistent. To be cuddly. To be fun. To try and be all of the things my father was to me. Its a tall task, but because of how awesome my dad was and is, it makes it a little easier to fail some times because dad's capable arms are still there for a big hug.
Dad, I love you so much. Thank you for EVERYTHING!
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